Shooting it Straight – Water Signs|Oct 28 – Nov 4, 2019

Here’s a heads-up on the challenge or obstacle you’re likely to face in your love relationship this week (problem) and what’s at the root of it (action). The advice is irreverent, a bit cheeky, unfiltered and admittedly brazen. The message is putting either you or your partner on notice. You know who you are! If you’re offended by the truth or strong language–stop here.


Perhaps there’s the feeling that it’s time to move on if you plan to ever get your confidence back. It could be a matter of pride that’s blocking objectivity about what’s going on in this relationship. Either of you may be trying to influence the other and meeting with difficulty in the attempt to express yourself. Someone’s so self-absorbed and intent on holding the spotlight that it’s challenging to get a word in edge-wise. Whether it be the excessive demands for attention or unyielding temper tantrums, this relationship has a penchant for extremes that feels almost (if not) abusive. To get this romance back on course will take creative effort to say the least, but you may not be ready to dive back in just yet. You’ll both need to find a better way to handle situations and stop making excuses for behaviors that need to be changed.

And what is it that either of you may need to know but don’t really want to hear?

Diatribe or dialogue?


Perhaps either of you are trying to find answers or dealing with information that has recently come to light. The problem is wading through old patterns of conditioning, insecurities, or emotional issues that have been a source of anger or frustration. There’s worry due to a nagging suspicion that something’s not right. Maybe intuition is telling you that disappointing news is headed in your direction. You’d like to make an objective assessment about your relationship but it’s challenging when there’s a lot you don’t understand. It’s time to examine with honesty how you’ve made yourself vulnerable through self-denial and/or self-defeat. The cloak and dagger story of intrigue, covert motives, and dark secrets may be in your head. A truthful conversation will set you free of any fears.

And what is it that either of you may need to know but don’t really want to hear?

It’s not as bad as all that.


So why is no one discussing the choice or decision that has to be made? Could it be that you’re still trying to figure out what to do about this relationship or a secret revelation? There hasn’t been a lot of movement as of late or maybe you’ve decided to take a break. An impasse is posing a major challenge while you hang out in stall mode. Perhaps there’s a need to shift toward your inner world to find answers before you start thinking the worst. Admittedly, you’re at a crossroads and the temptation to let things hang in limbo could be problematic. Time is not on your side if you’re not saying what needs to be said. Perhaps its time for one of you to make that apology or offer an explanation.

And what is it that either of you may need to know but don’t really want to hear?

Cruise control.

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[Deck: The Darkness of Light Tarot by Tony Dimauro| Wavelength Laboratory LLC]

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