Shooting it Straight – Fire Signs|Oct 28 – Nov 1, 2019

Here’s a heads-up on the challenge or obstacle you’re likely to face in your love relationship this week (problem) and what’s at the root of it (action). The advice is irreverent, a bit cheeky, unfiltered and admittedly brazen. The message is putting either you or your partner on notice. You know who you are! If you’re offended by the truth or strong language–stop here.


One of you may be disappointed about waiting for the perfect opportunity, especially if you’re seeking to gain personal empowerment. Your intuition is telling you to take a second look, change your perspective, or try a fresh approach, particularly where loyalty or faithfulness is concerned. Either of you could have made worthless sacrifices in the past that caused you to lash out in anger or frustration. It may have involved issues around children, fatherhood, success, or authority (yours or others). If there’s been a reversal in the state of happiness as of late, perhaps it’s due to a self-oriented desire to push things forward before the time is right. When you stop getting so burned up about situations, you’ll stop burning yourself out and stop getting burned. Either of you may need to reconsider expectations and whether they were ever realistic.

And what is it that either of you may need to know but don’t really want to hear?

Check yourself.


What’s your goal? While someone’s determined to bring something into the light, matters aren’t as black and white as you might think. Trying to make decisions and impose outdated “rules” to control or manipulate a partner will only pit you at odds. For at least one of you, there’s a desire to nurture and grow a family, a unit, or to achieve an objective. For that to occur, desire will have to burn beyond the bedroom. The lack of harmony from constant game playing makes a complex situation seem hopeless. That’s because of a tendency to push situations a little too far in the name of self-interest or personal temptation while putting family, relationship, or finances at risk. Someone’s got to take responsibility to own what’s happened in the relationship with both of you batting for the home team.

And what is it that either of you may need to know but don’t really want to hear?

Lighten up.


You’re waiting for the glow that comes with attracting the right mate or situation into your life that perfectly matches your “ideal.” The point is not to burn yourself out in the quest for that goal. Perhaps there’s some mutual admiration in the connection or the sudden illumination and awakening of your intuition concerning what’s right (or not) for you. Does it feel good AND is it good for you? You realize that being alone is not exactly what you had in mind, especially if you’re in an existing so-called partnership where the mate is emotionally oblivious. While it’s easy to get lost in the charm, good looks, or passion of another person, one of you will need to get clear on whether you’re even really capable of having an emotionally intimate relationship. That reckoning will come through an encounter related to your past.

And what is it that either of you may need to know but don’t really want to hear?

I’m not feelin’ it.

Hey, if two little cards aren’t enough to help you figure it out, you can always book a personal reading at

[Deck: The Darkness of Light Tarot by Tony Dimauro| Wavelength Laboratory LLC]

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