Love Notes: Week Nov 19-26, 2021

The theme for this week connects to healing and healers. As we approach cold weather season, you may be focused on recovering from or trying to avoid a cold, the flu, or other illness. However, situations involving sexual challenges, racial tension, or issues of rejection, feeling abandoned, or being left out in the cold are also in need of healing. If emotions have been in freeze mode or a relationship is skating on thin ice, perhaps you’ll need to make a greater effort toward nurturing and taking care of yourself. Situations that occur are meant to help you recognize the unhealthy or disconcerting parts of your relationship. In some cases, this means rejecting partnership based on the red flags, especially where there’s been dishonesty, disrespect, infidelity, substance abuse, or a lack of integrity. In other cases, the flags mark the path to healing that happens through honest discussion or counseling.


  • Possible deception
  • The need to think outside the box due to a secret revelation
  • Discovery of an unpleasant truth
  • Self-awareness related to a lack of trust
  • Secrets or anything hidden is now revealed; new information
  • A new perspective because of a revelation


  • Stirring up the past related to a secret love triangle
  • Secrets about, from, or related to a third party
  • Secret interference by a third party
  • Something you’re not seeing or something you’re hiding puts you at the center of attention
  • Multiple suitors vying for attention; one person catered to by multiple parties
  • Secrets shared between party of three
  • Need for something to come to light


  • Attainment of something at or through those at a distance; long distance relationship
  • Basking in the glow–taking a trip or vacation with a partner; holiday
  • Something suddenly takes off–recognition; success; whirlwind relationship
  • Putting distance between yourself and a situation–time to stop struggling, acceptance of what is
  • May need to go the distance with a partner during a difficult situation
  • Attainment through making the first move
  • A change in the wind (for better or worse)


  • Fairy tale romance; magical reality; cloud nine
  • Coming up with ideas or getting creative–romantic gestures, dating, courtship, invitation
  • Believing in your dreams about romance; dreams involving a romantic partner; dream partner
  • Romance novel
  • Uncertainty regarding a romantic situation–trying to sort out fiction from reality
  • Hoping for a date or invitation; fantasizing about romance


  • Making peace with the past–end of a struggle
  • Past conditioning affects your relationship–need to seek harmony, peace
  • Things falling into place regarding something from a long time ago
  • Decision made concerning unfinished business
  • Past life relationship where the love continues in this incarnation
  • May be dealing with an ex or old lover from the past


  • Broken heart related to appreciation, abundance, enjoying life, or something/someone you value
  • Disappointment in trying to hold on to someone/something
  • Disappointment because of seeking gratification (or not getting it)
  • Broken heart because of hurt, loss, betrayal, separation, or break up of a relationship
  • Contentment after moving past a disappointing situation
  • Appreciation of someone who has a broken heart


  • Need for a time out due to ego
  • Contemplating issues where relationship is hindered by arrogance, selfishness, or ego
  • Weighing options after refusal to compromise (positive/negative); self-righteousness
  • Contemplating situation where relationship needs mending; someone behaving with a big head and small heart
  • Two heads are better than one (ego related to getting help or ideas)
  • Negative messages in your head are just ego
  • Ego triggered when feeling as if you’re not taken seriously (may be in your head)
  • Contemplation but no movement–pride prevents one from taking action


  • Entertaining at home; a friend’s house; a need for playfulness or socializing
  • A friendship that feels “like home”; at home with friends
  • Experiencing domestic bliss with a partner–of like mind regarding collaborative efforts–decorating, renovation, domestic affairs; happy home situations
  • Collaborating on the purchase of a new home, property, setting up house, redecorating, or moving
  • Celebrating property purchase, move, or moving in together


  • Meetings related to health and vitality
  • Relationship counseling or therapy
  • Talks of a reconciliation; a need to release what you’ve been repressing
  • Expression for the purpose of making peace with a partner to reconcile past hurts
  • Expressing joy at reconnecting with someone you previously separated from; reunion
  • Working out issues or terms (may be related to doing something you love); creative or fruitful discussions
  • Positive change in the way you express yourself may lead to reconciliation; make up after break up
  • Falling in love again


  • Guidance or a need to seek direction related to karmic relationship/situation
  • Exploring the psyche because of relationship with karmic lesson, karmic debt, or spiritual evolution through experience orchestrated by the Universe
  • Open to inner voice concerning karmic relationship or soul mate situation
  • Connection that has lasted through many incarnations
  • Providence plays a role; divine intervention; spirit guides


  • Committed to wearing a mask (physical, emotional)
  • Successful juggling–balancing commitments
  • Emotional mask related marriage, wedding, partnership
  • Committed to finding balance–outer/inner alignment; work/life harmony
  • Need for healthy balance in partnership
  • Masking how you feel or maintaining emotional balance about marriage, partnership, or becoming a formal couple


  • A need to take charge to find a solution
  • Harnessing your personal power to find the key or solution that leads to empowerment; leadership
  • Finding the answer to manifesting plans/dreams; discovering a clue
  • Unlocking a secret, mystery, or enigma
  • A solution to a difficulty or challenge is imminent
  • An opportunity or someone’s heart that was formerly closed may suddenly open for you

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