Shooting it Straight – Earth Signs|Nov 25-29, 2019

Here’s a heads-up on the challenge or obstacle you’re likely to face in your love relationship this week (problem) and what’s at the root of it (action). The advice is irreverent, a bit cheeky, unfiltered and admittedly brazen. The message is putting either you or your partner on notice. You know who you are! If you’re offended by the truth or strong language–stop here.


Card altered for modesty.

Help me, help you. One of you needs a breakthrough to happen in this relationship. This might occur through an unexpected visitor or news connected to a crossroad decision or choice concerning a partnership. There’s an important judgment to be made about a destructive relationship, infidelity, sexual issues, or never-ending demands. Someone is watching–what goes around comes around, including both good and bad karma. This isn’t so much about a partner as it is about the choices you’ve made that contributed to the current state of affairs. It may be time to get some help or offer more, especially if there’s been difficulty discerning what’s fair. There’s an opportunity to repair or clarify a situation if both of you are willing to express your feelings honestly.

And what is it that either of you may need to know but don’t really want to hear?

You’re stressing me out.


Card altered for modesty.

As much as you’d like to, you can’t control the way this plays out between you if you continue to repress the emotions that you’re feeling. One of you needs to put that critical eye toward deciphering whether you do, indeed, share the same goals and objectives. If not, you’ll continue to find yourself locked in a power struggle, battles of ego, or interference from others. Someone is determined for the relationship to be on their terms, like it or not, unless the partner can prove to be their equal. This suggests working through differences of opinion without taking offense while still maintaining a sense of self. If you’re interested in establishing for the long-term or renewing a partnership, it’ll mean taking up the challenge of shouldering more responsibility, rather than just relying on your “charming” personality. No doubt the dilemma is an unhealthy relationship dynamic, but the answer is a connection to someone from your past or someone in your future.

And what is it that either of you may need to know but don’t really want to hear?

Step away from the controls.


It’s hard to make a fresh start when you get lost in the emotion of what’s been lost. You can reclaim your authority to regenerate if you choose, or drown in a feeling of barrenness. One of you will have to cross the chasm and shoot for success in order to salvage the relationship or save yourself. Perhaps the current lack of passion is due to unfulfilled promises, regret, or unrealized hopes and dreams from the past that taint the outlook with pessimism. And while you’ve tried to keep some semblance of emotional equilibrium, too many outside forces have created problems within your union or there’s been a tendency to start relationships that are destined for doom. But it’s time to turn away from the unhappy memories and recognize the love in your life that you’re failing to see. Take the plunge–an emotional baptism may begin with putting it all out there and on the table.

And what is it that either of you may need to know but don’t really want to hear?

Come clean.

Hey, if two little cards aren’t enough to help you figure it out, you can always book a personal reading at

[Deck: The Druid Craft Tarot Deck|Philip and Stephanie Carr-Gomm|Connections Book Publishing]

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