Mind-Numbing | Love Notes

December 13-20, 2024

Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.”

Neale Donald Walsch

Underlying Theme for All the Signs: When life becomes challenging, it can be easy to disassociate from your feelings as a coping mechanism. However, you’re being encouraged to open your eyes and see things as they really are and to walk away from illusions that block growth. Tuning in doesn’t equate to allowing yourself to be assailed by a barrage of noise from the outside world—social media, the news, jarring headlines, too much TV or anything else that becomes an escape. In fact, that constant run toward the next sensation has the opposite effect of numbing you and making you feel empty on the inside. Perhaps you’ve distanced yourself from something you feel is too difficult to bear, but honesty in dealing with suppressed, unacknowledged, or traumatic experiences helps you move toward healing. This week, examine where you may be self-sabotaging or feeling confused because of negativity that makes you feel powerless and unhappy. The longer you settle for the current circumstance of just getting by, the longer you rob yourself of the opportunity to get ahead.

Be sure to look at your Sun, Moon, and Rising signs for an expanded perspective. You can click any card to enlarge the view.

Aries

  • A need to be frugal brings nostalgia for the past (possibly in the belief that there was more opportunity)
  • Possibilities of an opportunity to create memories together
  • Memories of pleasant shared experiences that influence relationship
  • Taking a risk because of sentimentality—old loves may reappear
  • Memories that link to luck

Taurus

  • Admired for intuitive guidance or connection to spirit guides
  • Open to inner voice concerning a secret crush or interest from someone you hadn’t considered
  • A need to seek direction concerning special someone who may be unaware that they hold the key to your heart
  • Exploring the psyche—examination of why you or others fail to act on attraction
  • Spirit guides lead you toward an admirer
  • Awareness that you have a secret admirer who may be reluctant to come forward
  • Someone is watching you (social media, colleagues, clients, coworkers, friends, suitors, etc.)

Gemini

  • A need to seek harmony and peace when ego is triggered
  • End of a struggle related to self-righteousness or refusal to compromise; someone behaving with a big head and a small heart
  • Relationship hindered by arrogance, selfishness or ego is disruptive to harmony
  • Pride prevents one from taking action (may be related to situation involving a friend)
  • Decision made—relationship needs mending
  • Ego boost because of things falling into place OR ego triggered because you want them to

Cancer

  • Recognizing the splendor of friendship; may need to be ore of a friend to a partner at this time
  • Friend who may be highly attractive; luxuriating in attention (may be from friends)
  • Pampering yourself (may involve friends—i.e. shopping, spa treatment, girls outing, etc.)
  • Reveling with friends or “the beautiful crowd”; new acquaintance
  • Friendship that underscores the need to recognize inner beauty; friend that is beautiful both inside and out
  • Friendship has the potential to turn into romance; may meet a partner through a friend
  • Looking for inner qualities—taking things slowly by growing a friendship before getting romantically involved

Leo

  • Pride prevents one from taking action; a need for action—relationship needs mending
  • Self righteousness or the refusal to compromise—“when pigs fly” (you/others)
  • Serendipitous events highlight that someone is behaving with a big head and a small heart
  • Pushing luck—relationship hindered by arrogance, selfishness or ego (you/others)
  • Unexpected gift or opportunity provides an ego boost (may be linked to hopes and dreams)
  • Strong ego motivated by results that surpass expectations

Virgo

  • Dead end situations that may link to a celebration, vehicle, or possible travel
  • Progress or blockages related to insurance or protection (car, health, travel, property, etc.)
  • Traveling down a dead end road (literally, figuratively) or to a destination located on a dead end
  • Open doors where progress was blocked OR relationship going nowhere
  • Repetitive behavior (may be a need for movement, to relax, or to exercise)
  • Round and round about the same issues without resolution; no apparent solution; no-win situations
  • False start; relationship progresses only to suddenly end at a closed door; confusion about where relationship is heading
  • Good news after dealing with a dead end situation

Libra

  • Maintaining harmony in a friendship; may need to be more of a friend to someone
  • A need to seek harmony and peace concerning a friend; decision made by, about or for a friend
  • End of a struggle—taking things slowly by growing a friendship before getting romantically involved
  • May meet a partner through a friend (social, business, romantic); new acquaintance
  • Decision made about whether friendship has the potential to turn into romance

Scorpio

  • Abundant contacts; wide network
  • Karmic situation that brings a shift in scarcity consciousness
  • Karmic relationship or soul mate situation with much to offer
  • Issues of gratitude—with each other to learn a karmic lesson, pay a karmic debt or to evolve spiritually through experience orchestrated by the Universe
  • Link to the divine through connection to nature; reaching out to someone for an outing in nature
  • Abundant karma (positive/negative); karmic situations tied to matters of abundance
  • Thankfulness related to connection that has lasted through many incarnations
  • Providence plays a role; divine intervention links to reaping fruits of efforts

Sagittarius

  • Getting some distance from a confusing situation; ghosting or being ghosted by someone at a distance
  • Long distance relationship
  • Higher perspective to sort out fiction from reality
  • Getting high (mind altering substances; dealing with mental health challenges
  • Change in the wind—may need to go the distance with a partner in a difficult situation
  • Heightened psychism, creativity or imagination; creating a magical reality; dreams/visions
  • Fairyland destination; holiday; taking a trip or vacation; travel for creative purposes
  • Something takes off due to believing in your dreams
  • Exhilaration of whirlwind relationship; hoping for or not sure of making the first move

Capricorn

  • Invitation to a party; socializing; social engagement
  • Invitation to “ring in” the new year
  • Promise ring; proposal; engagement to be married; promise of jewelry
  • A need for community or to get out of your shell to connect with others
  • Offer linked to a new friend or an opportunity
  • Opportunities that connect to agreements, contracts, or unions that are legally binding
  • Invitations related to commitment, obligation or undertaking
  • Socializing, offers or promises tied to a budding romance

Aquarius

  • Appointment; timed meeting; relationship counseling or therapy
  • Taking the initiative in making peace with partner to reconcile past hurts; make up after break up
  • Time to act—working out issues or terms
  • Good timing—reconnecting with someone you previously separated from; reunion; diving right in where you last left off with someone
  • Starting something and falling in love again

Pisces

  • Inaction and its effect on financial situation (yours/others); playfulness surrounding money works for or against you
  • Mind on the money—single-minded focus on finances; workaholic; targeted financial objective; career and work may take priority over relationship; focus on the bottom line or how much something will cost
  • Distraction of work affair with superior, colleague, coworker or client; relationship linked to a work setting
  • Seeing through the intentions of others for gain (yours/theirs); money is everything (you/other)
  • Fantasizing—thinking of what you could do if you had the money—all is possible
  • Seeing with exacting detail how to make money or problematic money issues
  • Seeing eye to eye—shared financial goals; family business
  • Finances are affecting the relationship; you or partner may be involved in financial industry—banking, investments, wealth management, property development, real estate, etc.
  • Paid to use your imagination; creative money-making; start of something that allows you to let creativity loose while making money

Decks: Romantic Love Oracle, Love is a Garden Affirmation Deck, A Word of Advice, The Alchemist Astrologer; The Good Tarot, Collette Baron-Reid; Mystical Healing, Inna Segal

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