Love Notes: Week Oct 20-27, 2023

Brief love reading for each of the signs. Be sure to look at your Sun, Moon, and Rising signs for an expanded perspective.

There is a wonderful, mystical law of nature that the three things man craves most in life–happiness, freedom, and peace of mind–are always attained by giving them to someone else.

Peter Conway March

Underlying Theme for All the Signs: If you feel a sense of apathy, discontent or dissatisfaction caused by the perceived lack of movement, the lull is meant to stimulate you to dream bigger than before. Plans that don’t come to fruition as expected signal greater things that may await you. Perhaps you’re being presented with the opportunity to live in total honesty driven by the chance to turn inward for a check-in with yourself. If so, this suggests learning from karma and the culmination of your experiences. This could bring awareness surrounding the difference between real potential or just a potential problem. Whatever you’re facing links the material with the emotional, the present and the future. If happy with your current station, the week will bring a myriad of pleasant possibilities for you to partake of at your choosing.

However, if at all insecure, uncertain or in denial, you’ll miss an offer or the intuitive prompting of the Universe and instead choose to complain, play the role of victim, and resist the change that is. While you may not fully recognize it, the scales are balanced given a past that extends beyond this lifetime. It’s now your turn to extend generosity, compassion, and honor by going out of your way to do good deeds for others no matter the inconvenience and regardless of whether you gain.


  • Illusions surrounding luck; what appears as a chance event may actually be planned
  • Envisioning what good fortune looks like
  • Some aspect of self, relationship or situation is not as it appears on the surface
  • Projections (yours/others)–excessive preoccupation with appearing happy, successful, capable, intelligent, financially stable, attractive, etc. (either as a couple or to attract)
  • Need for action–refusal to see the truth; behavior reflected back
  • A need to take a closer look–may see the fortunate aspect of a circumstance
  • Examining hopes and dreams; results surpass expectations (may involve creating an appearance–image, social media, creative endeavor, packaging, product, etc.)
  • Unexpected gift or opportunity (remains to be seen whether actually of good fortune)
  • Need for action–may need to improve appearance (physical, image, etc.)
  • Superficial relationship concerned primarily with looks (relationship, persona, agenda, social media, etc.) (may be necessary for purpose of influence)


  • Need for change due to changes in body chemistry
  • Changing fragrance
  • Transformation that has an effect on shared chemistry (positive/negative)
  • Change that occurs due to intense sexual chemistry, physical attraction, or sexual encounter
  • Desire for change; transformation because of magnetism; embracing a new self-identity
  • Following a dream or passion
  • Opportunity for change related to a dream (pursuit) or strong attraction (person)


  • Decision about faith, spirituality, beliefs, religion, etc.
  • Faith in a decision (yours/other)
  • Relying on faith to make a decision
  • Decision as a result of deep spiritual connection; core values align
  • Decision reflects that one of you is more focused on developing spiritual growth than being in relationship
  • Relationship may bring spiritual evolution
  • Decision brings answered prayers or whether prayers are answered
  • The purpose of a decision is to serve spiritual lesson through relationship


  • Desire for cold weather, outdoor activity, snow, etc.
  • Tempted to open the refrigerator
  • Thwarted desires due to a cold, flu, virus, etc.
  • Chilly response (yours/theirs) to desires
  • Putting a freeze on feelings related to temptation towards someone/something
  • Sexual frigidity, impotence, or lack of libido in situations surrounding lust or seduction
  • Rejection; thwarted desires (yours/theirs)
  • Left out in the cold; lack of emotional warmth or depth in personal connection to someone (may be/were very physically attracted to this person); cooling off of relationship
  • Relationship conflicts characterized by cold wars where the punishment is silence, aloofness
  • Repressed emotions (desires burn deep); loneliness


  • Taking a closer look at the past
  • Looking behind the curtain at how past conditioning affects your relationship
  • A need to notice everyday magic–ties from the past may be the catalyst
  • The magic of channeling back through time–past life regression, memories from past lives
  • Looking more closely at something from a long time ago; unfinished business
  • Revealing the past or a history (yours/others)
  • Relationship with someone from a past life
  • Magic from the past–may be dealing with an ex or old lover; agreement to continue love in this incarnation


  • Memories of the past connect to the future
  • Experiences that may involve foresight, fortune-telling, astrology, divination, etc.; third eye
  • Nostalgia for the past and the good fortune connected to it
  • Manifesting with thoughts–old loves may reappear
  • Possibilities tied to creating memories together
  • Sentimentality brings a need for clarity
  • Memories of pleasant shared experiences influence relationship and the future
  • Good fortune tied to someone with whom you share fond memories


  • Finding the right chemistry/formula for healing
  • Attempting to heal the chemistry between you
  • Strong attraction to healer, healing modality, or healing profession
  • Magnetism of charismatic healer
  • Inner/outer healing–may be tied to physical attraction or sexual encounter
  • Time out to be with or time out from someone you feel magnetic attraction or intense sexual chemistry
  • Time out to heal before sexual encounter
  • Self nourishment–tending to desires, passion
  • A need for self love affects chemistry with others


  • Need for a time out–weighing options concerning having a drink, glass of wine, going out for drinks or to a wine bar
  • Assessing the foolishness of certain relationships; feeling foolish in relationship due to age difference
  • Taking stock of a long term relationship or someone you’ve known for a long time
  • Two heads are better than one–experience assists in making alliances; wisdom, age and experience plays a role
  • Need for a time out–from alcohol, dealing with parents, role as parent
  • Contemplating a May-December romance, relationship as older couple; relationship with someone much older and likely to be more financially established
  • Considerations related to parents, ancestry, heritage
  • Inner messages related to insecurities–may be as to whether relationship will improve over time


  • Keeping a tight lid on it–not saying what you’re thinking
  • Concentration until eyes glazed over–confining situation is hindering you from sharing, expressing, or making the most of your best self
  • Relationship making one of you feel trapped and unable to progress; you/partner may need greater freedom
  • Thinking someone should put a cork in it; uncomfortable changes
  • Seeing through something (agenda, intentions, motivation) before it’s out in the open
  • A lot of ideas but–fantasizing, inaction
  • Playfulness–sending the message without really saying it
  • Trying to think of an escape route
  • Start of something (may not be released yet)
  • Total focus–creative ideas percolating; waiting to let creativity loose; positive inner transformation–all is possible


  • The attraction is palpable; intense sexual chemistry
  • Provocative perfume
  • Revelations from hidden sources (may concern desire, physical attraction, sexual encounter) that may/may not involve you
  • Self-awareness related to strong attraction, passion, or magnetism
  • Need for contemplation, inner listening with regard to desires or attractions (person, pursuit, endeavor, habit, object, etc.)
  • Spirit messages that guide desires


  • Getting directions; travel plans; itinerary
  • Packing it up and moving on (literally, figuratively)
  • Inability to move forward due to “baggage”
  • Aimlessness, need for orientation–literally, figuratively; escapism
  • Focus–not letting go of old wounds or resentments (you/others); unresolved issues affect the way you engage
  • Motivation/drive to get past OR creates inability to get past chronic negative behaviors that damage or prevent relationship
  • Examining the focus and whether you’re seeking to partner based on common goals and interests or simply because of mutual experiences of disappointment
  • Creating, following a plan to move on from relationships saddled with baggage from past conditioning–childhood patterns, ego, past relationships


  • Broken heart about being alone (you/others)
  • Tending to a broken heart in solitude; seeking sanctuary from heart-breaking situations; need for rest, withdrawal
  • Mulling things over–disappointment or heartbreak because of hurt, loss, betrayal, separation or break up of relationship
  • Inner listening in matters of the heart (where you/others are hurting)
  • Re-energizing after a broken heart (may be related to events of the previous quarter moon or those set to occur at the next quarter moon)

Decks: Romantic Love Oracle, Love is a Garden Affirmation Deck, In Color, The Alchemist Astrologer; The Good Tarot, Collette Baron-Reid; Mystical Healing, Inna Segal

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