Cancer|State of the Union-Your Relationship

No, it isn’t political, it’s romantic–a tarot forecast that provides a brief overview of the current state of your relationship.

Heart of the Matter

An earth sign person (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn) may be the focal point of your attention or a part of your personality at this time. The presence of this queen underscores an emphasis on the material world that may connect to business affairs, financial concerns, or domestic obligations. Strong abilities to plan and organize can suggest that either you or your partner have taken on the magnitude of responsibility in or for the relationship, possibly to the point of over-managing. Perhaps a needed break from duties in favor of a trip with or away from a partner can recharge the relationship.

The Crossing

(What Challenges or Affirms the Above)

Your ideal is someone who manages the daily details and concerns with loving care to keep home and business running smoothly. Your appreciation for the sensual aspects of relationship lends an influence over home as a beautiful sanctuary and generates the flow of generosity to those you love. The challenge is not letting appearance override substance or allowing a partner to take advantage of your beneficence. With your needs fulfilled, a relationship could reach culmination in decisions concerning pregnancy or deepening commitment with ample opportunities for abundance that bring you closer to an important goal. You want answers surrounding plans and dates possibly in planning a romantic date, setting a date for marriage, the expected delivery date of a child, or significant dates related to a birthday, anniversary, or other marker in your relationship. Perhaps its because you’re in tune with an important woman in your life or attuned to your own role as creator, wife, and/or mother.

Underlying Influence

Events are provoked by themes of commitment whether traditional or unconventional and “doing the right thing,” especially if there’s been reckless behavior in the past. This relationship has you questioning beliefs, values, and principles that have a bearing on faith in yourself and as a couple. It’s also about expectations and possible drama caused by too many promises without delivery or ongoing financial issues. But before you move forward in any direction, make sure you have all the facts, especially in decisions motivated by attraction or irritation. A Taurus person (sun, moon, rising) may be at the center.

The Recent Past

You may have felt compelled to stand up for yourself or find out where you stand in matters due to the front or back end of a stressful situation. An (over) intense determination to protect may have driven you to bear greater responsibility in maintaining your own security or peace of mind. On the other hand, maybe you’re connected to authority figures or strong masculine energy that leans toward the traditional. Perhaps to avoid the wrath, abuse, or dominance of the partner with power, you’ve made decisions behind the scenes. With control issues present in a relationship, a tendency for either running away from problems or the refusal to grow up may have stalled matters or banished one of you to social or emotional exile. For some, a link to an Aries person (sun, moon, rising) connects to circumstance.

Crowning Influence

It’s possible that an opportunity, windfall, or helping hand is the catalyst for a new beginning. A well-established platonic friendship might unexpectedly turn into a blossoming romance or a chance encounter sparks instant attraction that reads like a soul mate connection from past lives. The sensual side of your relationship is highlighted and intimacy feels comfortable and mutually satisfying, although there’s a danger of placing too much emphasis on the physical. If committed, this may be the period where you decide to start a family, buy a home, or take that dream vacation. New possibilities indicate a rise in financial prosperity and circumstances that support future happiness. In the negative, unexpected financial expenditures or heavy obligations place security in jeopardy. Additionally, if you’re harboring fears about change, you might miss an opportunity by clinging to a present situation or because of your reluctance to take a chance on love and life.

Outcome

You’re making important decisions or connecting to those who do. This may be an air sign (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius) or a person with considerable power to direct events and who may be a bit controlling, or even ruthless at times. This relationship rests on whether you both want the same things and relies on a communication style that is direct and to the point. If this is your partner, romance and emotional expression may not be the forte; the love language revolves around analysis and finding solutions to problems. Perhaps this union solidifies you as a power couple or the relationship is overshadowed by a parental influence. Negatively, problems that center on selfishness, lack of emotional involvement, or the tendency to dominate can drive a wedge between you. If you’ve experienced difficult challenges as of late, professional advice from an impartial observer might help to work out a more equitable arrangement.

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