Love Notes: Weekend Dec 4-6, 2020

Brief love reading for each of the signs. Be sure to look at your Sun, Moon and Rising sign for an expanded perspective.

Underlying Theme for All the Signs: In the words of Hamlet, “to be or not to be” is the underlying question surrounding relationship. Perhaps your quest to find the answer means disconnecting from each other or retreating to a private world together. Your concerns may focus on issues that reach back to the distant past, working out the terms of a situation, or getting counseling. There’s always the possibility to make up, fall in love all over again, or breathe new life into your connection, but for now, a dichotomy exists between the desire to reconcile or the decision to give up on resurrecting an important partnership. Either way, change is in order and if you can’t make peace with each other, at least make peace with yourself.

Is love in the cards? Wake up and smell the coffee.


  • Entertaining at home; happy home situations; celebrating at home
  • A friend’s house
  • Group home
  • Roommate; domestic bliss with a partner; moving in together
  • Collaborative efforts related to home, property or domestic affairs
  • Real estate partnership
  • Need for more playfulness or socializing as part of home life
  • May be purchasing a home or new property, setting up house, redecorating


  • Trust issues related to control–authoritarian, domineering, or aggressive behavior
  • Emotional control–recognizing vulnerability
  • Someone seeking royal treatment; excessive demands; sense of entitlement
  • One partner taking on most of responsibility for relationship
  • Trust in authority figures; feeling protected; support from others
  • Belief in self; self-mastery–in control


  • Grief over losing good fortune; dealing with rejection
  • Unhappiness, loss, or disappointment related to hopes and dreams; sadness because of betrayal, separation, or death
  • Unexpected gift or opportunity to heal from grief
  • Need for action concerning emotional wounding
  • Serendipitous events surpass expectations in overcoming sadness


  • Success in the legal arena; working on agreements for equitable resolution; getting a lawyer; attainment of a contract
  • Awareness of equality, balance, or justice
  • Getting what you deserve (good or bad)
  • Concern for beauty, harmony, line, form, color
  • Restoring order; settling debts (financial/emotional); setting things right
  • Weighing options about how to gain recognition; choosing between two partners; dual opportunities
  • Making important decisions; negotiations; choices
  • Determining fairness in responsibilities–parenting, domestic responsibilities, finance, or assets
  • Seeking balance–time to stop struggling, acceptance of what is
  • Dealings with a Libra person (sun, moon, rising)
  • Balancing personal and professional life; adjustments


  • Successful juggling to make time for fun, travel, or getaway
  • Work/life harmony
  • Masking emotions regarding enjoying yourself; not showing how you feel about relationship that brings pleasure
  • Need for healthy balance–thrill seeking
  • Maintaining emotional balance concerning relationship that is a mutual fun ride but may not develop into anything deeper or when dealing with a friends with benefits situation
  • Emotional equilibrium related to whether a relationship is serious
  • Outer/inner alignment connected to amusement, entertainment, fun
  • Emotional perspective or balance concerning a car or transportation issues


  • Transformation due to criticism, narrow-mindedness, refusal to compromise, or rash behavior
  • Score-keeping; mental record of perceived wrongs; resentments
  • Need for change–fear of commitment; inconsistencies in speech and behavior, thoughtlessness
  • Changing documents; changing itinerary or travel ticket
  • Competition for love and affection; having to pay high price for relationship; trading favors (sex for money, power)
  • Power plays; negative comparisons, red flags
  • Documents, papers, receipts, paperwork related to opportunity for change
  • Following a dream or embracing a new identity; facing extreme competition; sports


  • Giving/receiving love meets with a dead end; relationship going nowhere
  • Closing the door on love–need to bring more love into your life; relationship progresses only to stall
  • Closing the door on generosity; dealing with closed heart
  • False start in love; progress blocked; no-win situation
  • Issues without resolution impact love; repetitive behavior in matters of love
  • Confusion about where this relationship is headed
  • Choosing self-love over a dead end situation
  • Opening your heart opens a closed door


  • Illusion of magic; need to see the magic in the mundane
  • Taking a closer look at an illusion–some aspect of self, relationship, or partner is not as it appears on the surface
  • Magic of illusion; sleight of hand; false presentation; superficial relationship concerned primarily with looks
  • Excessive preoccupation with appearances–looks, success, financial stability, happiness; trying to show only the best parts
  • Need to take a closer look; refusal to see the truth
  • Projections; behavior reflected back; mirroring


  • Intuition concerning family or past influences
  • Trust your instincts about whether this relationship feels right or should move forward
  • Memories, reveling in the past; nostalgia; difficulty moving on
  • Intuition reveals a message about an encounter
  • Pearls of wisdom


  • Buying a mask
  • Boldness of deception concerning finances; taking a financial risk–need to tread lightly
  • Career/work take priority over relationship; workaholic
  • Work affair with coworker, colleague, superior, or client
  • Happiness, laughter, enjoyment surrounding money
  • Bold financial moves
  • Putting something out there concerning finances
  • Finances are affecting relationship; shared financial goals; family business


  • Motivation or drive related to moving toward or moving on from a secret admirer
  • Secret admirer that may be reluctant to come forward
  • Creating or following a plan concerning special someone who may be unaware they hold the key to your heart
  • Someone interested in you that you hadn’t considered
  • Aimlessness, need for orientation regarding a secret crush
  • Someone is watching you; focus


  • Extreme repression–keeping things bottled up inside
  • Money held back from you; lack of gratitude (self or others)
  • Confining situation costing your money, hindering you from making money, or keeping you from making the most of your best self
  • Shift from a scarcity mentality
  • Stuck inside–need connection to nature
  • Relationship never fully develops; uncomfortable changes; trying to change partner into the ideal
  • You/partner may need greater freedom; looking for an escape route
  • Abundance arrives because you know when or what to hold back
  • Keeping the lid on how much you have–reaping the fruits of your efforts; inner transformation regarding abundance; gratitude

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Image: An Idyll of Marriage, Henri Pierre Picou

Decks: Romantic Love Oracle|The Alchemist Astrologer and The Romance Angels Oracle|Doreen Virtue|Hay House, Inc.

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