Here’s a heads-up on the challenge or obstacle you’re likely to face in your love relationship this week (problem) and what’s at the root of it (action). The advice is irreverent, a bit cheeky, unfiltered and admittedly brazen. The message is putting either you or your partner on notice. You know who you are! If you’re offended by the truth or strong language–stop here.
Gemini
Where’s the love? Perhaps you’ve been racking your brain regarding a situation that feels somewhat like a losing proposition. Either of you may be taking the other for granted and facing the consequences. Perhaps there’s mistrust, fear, or suspicion related to emotional or sexual encounters that causes one of you to withhold affection or commitment. Even when love is offered, those old anxieties related to past experiences or relationships rear up and prompt you to close up and close off. While it’s better to deal with difficulties through honest confrontation, acting with too much self-interest in the name of self-preservation could mean pushing both buttons and boundaries that lead to hurtful words or arguments. If either of you feels attacked or ignored when trying to communicate feelings and desires, it may be time to get help, guidance, or advice.
And what is it that either of you may need to know but don’t really want to hear?
Things can get messy.
Libra
Angry about bills? Trying to find work (that you love)? Taking on more responsibility than is fair? Frustrated with constant criticism? Welcome to the reality of those of us relegated to the 99%, although reality may be the bigger issue right now. There’s a preference for one of you to bury your head in the sand and not take something seriously. Perhaps you’re considering all angles before making your next move to address the problem or just tiring from the repetition of it all. You’ll need to work hard to clear the air without airing all the dirty laundry–YOU did this…, and YOU did that…back in 1982. This is a situation where there are no shortcuts–one of you can’t just say the requisite words unless you’re actually living and breathing them if you want that emotional connection. You’ll also have to listen if you want to actually hear what’s really being said.
And what is it that either of you may need to know but don’t really want to hear?
Sorry for the interruption.
Aquarius
This is a very spiritual week for you, dear Aquarius, accompanied with the struggles that are usually necessary for inner growth. There’s an important decision that should be carefully weighed before advancing, especially if you’d like to bring a partner on board. The advantage lies in developing a strategy–lying isn’t it. A delay could mean that one of you should protect self, possessions, or reputation by playing your cards close to the chest until you analyze motives. On the other hand, perhaps you’re too defensive in waiting for the other shoe to drop and instead choosing to keep love at a distance with escape plan in hand. If so, you’ll need to acknowledge the fears or illusions you’ve been running from and rise to the challenge. Perhaps you can give in, without giving up.
And what is it that either of you may need to know but don’t really want to hear?
Sit back and enjoy the ride.
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[Deck: Ancient Italian Tarot| Lo Scarabeo, Torino]
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