Virgo|State of the Union-Your Relationship

No, it isn’t political, it’s romantic–a tarot forecast that provides a brief overview of the current state of your relationship.

Heart of the Matter

This is a good time to begin something new or reintroduce yourself in social circles if you’d like to start dating. If you’ve recently gone through a break up, it’s time to let go of the burdens of the past to travel lighter in the quest for fresh experiences. It’s possible you’ll meet someone while traveling or have a significant encounter that ties to your destiny. This new path is lighthearted and spontaneous and could mean involvement with someone free-spirited, youthful, or bohemian in nature. But love can also become a liability if a lack of experience prompts you to jump headfirst into a relationship, possibly against your own better judgment or the advice of others. Alternatively, you may take a wait-and-see approach before fully investing in commitment or decide to leave an established union in favor of pursuing a dream. The challenge is the restlessness that drives you or your partner to search for greener pastures. When things don’t go according to plan, one of you may be looking for the nearest exit or way out.

The Crossing

(What Challenges or Affirms the Above)

Perhaps there’s a dichotomy between you and a partner that manifests through the roles of adult and child, responsible and reckless, experienced and naive or a need to reconcile opposing differences within self. It may be the temptation to step outside of your relationship with someone new or an already established relationship could be entering uncharted territory. For some, you feel an extraordinary sense of duty and responsibility to a partner. However, for others, the union feels heavy, burdensome, or restrictive due to chronic problems or long standing issues. Your relationship can be characterized by strong sexuality, addictions, or compulsions where you or the partner play out themes of dominance when love, money, or sex are used to gain control. In some cases, your issues are tied to an ex. A Capricorn (sun, moon, rising) could be part of the equation.

Underlying Influence

Despite the odds or any inhibitions, relationship offers potential. Unexpected opportunities enable you to create a “happily ever after” if you’re willing to build a foundation where the goal may be to get married, move in together, or purchase a home. Honest exchanges shed light on matters that allow both of you to reinforce your peace of mind, learn the truth, and discover your standing. However, if there’s a tendency for too much self-interest, self-involvement, or selfishness with little forethought for words or deeds, your security could be at stake.

The Recent Past

Too much of a good thing could have meant indecision in choosing the best option. Muddled thinking, misunderstandings, and misconceptions only added to the confusion that contributed to the emotional overwhelm. In response, mental health challenges, drugs or alcohol use, or some form of escapism might have been used as a coping mechanism. You’ve had to get matters back on track by doing a reality check to determine who you want, what your priorities are, and whether they’re actually obtainable.

Crowning Influence

Either of you may be devoted, loyal, or strongly reliant on the strength of the partner. The tie is passionate and powerful, but the challenge is not letting pride get in the way or resorting to bullying behavior, blame, or finger-pointing motivated by baser instincts. A lack of self-esteem or doubt can weaken your bond when fears of rejection, failure, or abandonment are triggered. A Leo person (sun, moon, rising) may be central.

Outcome

The outcome in a situation could depend on a water sign person (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces) or your embodiment of the traits of this king. It may be a father figure, trusted adviser, professional, loyal friend, or your dream partner that has strong bearing on circumstances. In the positive, desires rooted in deep emotion motivate you to impress someone of interest, improve a relationship, or defend your position and the goal is effortlessly achieved. Negatively, you’re finding it hard to gain control of a situation you’ve been trying to negotiate (or manipulate), especially if depth or sincerity is lacking.

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