No, it isn’t political, it’s romantic–a tarot forecast that provides a brief overview of the current state of your relationship.
Heart of the Matter
You or your partner may be on the defensive, facing a challenge, or fending off attack from others. You’re currently standing your ground on certain issues but it’s unclear just how long your upper advantage will hold, especially if any third party interference is posing a threat. Choose your battles wisely and by all means stand up for yourself or act with conviction to stay true to a vision, but it may be a dogged determination to do things one way (your way) is really the cause of dissatisfaction or unhappiness. Perhaps a bit of flexibility will go a long way in persuading the opposition to come to your side. If not, an unequivocal ultimatum or line in the sand could mean that one of you is blocked.
The Crossing
(What Challenges or Affirms the Above)
The hope is for the culmination of something that offers happiness and shared success that may involve marriage, home, and family. Perhaps this is the realization of a lasting commitment, harmony in a personal relationship, or a promise fulfilled with the power to influence all areas of your life. As partners, your hard work is finally reaping results toward the security you’ve desired, and there’s a reminder to take stock of the good fortune you’ve received. On the other hand, you may be lonely and longing to reunite with someone close or heal a connection. Family disagreements, excessive demands, mind games, manipulation, or relationship difficulties threaten to overshadow what should be a joyful period if not for those closest hell-bent on ruining the party. The response can be overly-emotional when either you or your partner forget not to sweat the small stuff.
Underlying Influence
You may have to agree to disagree with a partner, especially if you have conflicting perspectives. Even with the truce you’ve declared, there appears to be no real resolution in sight. Either of you may be waiting for a shift in circumstance or playing the waiting game as a strategy. Indecision or difficulties making a firm choice can trigger irrational anxieties that arise out of nowhere. Uncertainty about the future may cause you to emotionally close off or shut down. An inner battle stirred by mixed emotions and mixed messages makes it difficult to find resolution or maintain peace. The challenge is not allowing impatience or frustration to undermine the very objective you’re hoping to achieve.
The Recent Past
Heavy burdens and pressing obligations might have pushed you to reconsider how much more stress, tension, or responsibility you were willing to bear. At times, either of you might have blown off steam by blowing things out proportion. Perhaps the pressure of moving or stressful career demands limited the quality of togetherness or intimacy with your partner, but despite the fact that the partnership is financially secure, the relationship suffers without making time for each other. If single, the thought of going through the motions required to date or socialize seems too overwhelming.
Crowning Influence
If single, you might wish to cast your net to see what comes up for the catch or fish for answers concerning a prospective partner. If you’ve been playing the field, the time has come for you to make a choice. Single or partnered, opportunities arise to further develop a relationship and take it the next level. This could be steps toward marriage in the form of a proposal or the decision to have a child. There’s imminent success in establishing a committed partnership by taking the steps that lead to your intended destination. In the negative, the ship you’ve been waiting for never arrives when a prospect that looked promising lets you down at the last minute or you make changes to the story line. For one of you, the tendency is to make yourself, a situation, prospect, or relationship seem better than it actually is.
Outcome
If single, you’re now ready to fully commit to a relationship. If involved, a relationship could reach culmination in decisions concerning pregnancy or a deepening commitment that brings opportunities for happiness and abundance. This may tie to an important woman in your life, maternal figure, or your own role as creator, wife, and/or mother. It may be an appreciation for beauty, sensuality, and overall well-being that serves as the motivating force behind applied efforts toward an important goal. The challenge is not letting appearance override substance or creating situations where a partner takes advantage of the other’s generosity. For some, the giving comes with strings attached or an overly-protective instinct smothers a mate’s individuality.
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